How to Give a Girl a Promise Ring

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August 29, 2017

It's important to consider how to give a girl a promise ring. While it is not a sign of an official engagement, it is a sign you are devoted to being committed to her and your romantic relationship. To be sure the girl doesn't misconstrue the giving of the ring as a marriage proposal, it's best to avoid getting down on one knee, and you should be prepared to explain exactly what the ring symbolizes.

Ideas of How to Give a Girl a Promise Ring

Different ways to give a promise ring range from fun and spontaneous to thoughtful and romantic occasions.

Wrap It
One of the easiest ways to present a promise ring is as a gift. Wrap the ring in a pretty box and give it to your girlfriend on a traditional gift giving holiday, such as her birthday, Valentine's Day or Christmas. Make sure you're there to watch her open it, both so you can explain its significance and so that you can see her face light up when she first sees it. Promise rings also make an excellent anniversary gift. Think one year anniversary, not two week anniversary.

Go To a Romantic Locale
Got a location that you and your girlfriend consider "yours," such as the place where you first kissed or the restaurant where you had your first date. These are good settings for the presentation of a promise ring. Since you'll want the presentation to be more casual than a proposal, consider sliding her the box or slipping the ring on her finger while you talk.

Make It a Surprise
Another way to present the ring is when you're just going about your day. Slip the ring box in her purse when she's not looking or set it out on the kitchen table and wait until she notices. If you want a grander surprise, create a little scavenger hunt for her. Give her a small note that tells her the location of the next note. Have the final note explain the purpose of the ring and sit right next to the box.

Buy the Ring Together
You could also go the opposite route and let her know in advance that you plan to buy her a ring. Then you can simply go to the jewelry store together and select one. You can even select a matching ring for yourself, which is a sweet way to show the two of you are a pair.

What to Say When Presenting the Ring

There really are no wrong or right things to say. The script for how to give a girl a promise ring will be different depending on your relationship. Basically, tell your girlfriend why you decided to buy her a promise ring, focusing on your love and commitment to her. If you plan on replacing it with an engagement ring in the future, you can tell her that. If you're not sure, just explain that you pledge to be faithful to her and leave it at that.

Note that if you've been dating for years and you're over the age of 25 or your lady is very eager to get married, she may be disappointed to receive a promise ring instead of a diamond. You need to consider her reaction carefully in this circumstance before you give her the ring. If you're worried, you might want to stick with another form of jewelry for now, such as a necklace or a pair of earrings.